you gotta find a career you can enjoy. i read a study somewhere that people who work shift work tend to be happier than people who work steady 9-5s. and thats basically it. once you have to support a kid. youre basically sacraficing your own life to give to them.
its a tough decision. you could be "greedy and selfish" by not raising kids and enjoying your life. or you can contribute to an already overpopulated planet by raising a kid whose just gonna grow up to do the same shit we do in a different day an age.
and atesk, how the fuck can you only be 160? how tall are you? im lanky as fuck but still weight a buck 80. granted im 6'2