ok. so today i was thinking about when im 18 or whatever and live on my own and do my own thing. what i want to know is if any of you are going to keep your relationship with your family after you moved out, or whatever. thoughts and opinions?
Word up. I got the worst relationship with my mom ever, but when I move out, I know that shit is gonna change 'cause we ain't gon be up in each others faces all the time.
I've seen the way alotta my friends get, the guys that move out to some shithole downtown on welfare at like 16/17/18. imo its way too young for someone to be out on their own, family keeps you goin. I guess theres acceptions tho to the kids that got broken homes etc... i like to see those kids make it on their own tho instead of just becoming little shithead thugs
My brother moved out soon as he could into some shithole because he wanted to be independent and whatever, but since that his relationship has gotten loads better with the fam. Plus hes probably moving back in soon, the bum
even you turn 18 and live on your own dont turn your back on them cause if you got shit...they can always help
I'm still close with my parents. My sister and I don't even talk anymore, but I'm still tight with my parents...after all the shit I made them put up with when I was younger, it's the least I can do. Y'know? I'm fuckin' grateful and I love them. 'nuff said.
me and an old friend of mine have had this conversation before...we decided that wee both need jobs by the time were 18 so we can get a decent apartment until were done with all our shit and can get out on our own..livin with my family is only bringing them deeper into a hell hole so i feel its better that i leave while i still have all of my arms legs and youth.
why would you get rid of that relationship, theyre the reason you made it to be 18 in the first place. not to mention all the shit your going to take with you when you move out, that THEY bought you
i wouldnt trade the relationship with my mom and pops for anything. i feel bad for people who dont have a strong bond with they mom an dad
I love my family, got a solid relationship with my moms and pops. Even, my cousins, aunts, uncles, grandparents etc...I don't care where I live or how old I am, I'ma always visit my family, I couldn't go without seeing my parents or sister for a year straight, thats just me though.
if you talk to your parents more than twice a month, go to college, and dont do coke youll never be down with LD... ill never be in LD :mellow:
if there is one thing that will always have my back its my parents....no matter what shit I get into they are always there......