I've always wondered what it would be like to be a man-slut My girlfriend and I first got together in 2004
Five years? That's impressive. I've wondered what it would be like to be a "man-slut" too but then realized that that isn't me. I would much rather be in a serious relationship, any day. I'll get there someday.
you say that now but once you get in one youll want out, youre still young, why be tied down to one girl? the more girls you mess with, the better your understanding of what you want becomes, THEN you can be in a serious relationship. my point being, always try something new, when you have enough, youll know what you like the best compared to everything else.
Everyone always tell me that; "you're too young for a commitment." I usually just brush them off. I know myself so well, I know what I want, I know what I don't want, my only problem is insecurities. My insecurities ruined a four year relationship. I just need to find a girl with my same insecurities, we'd understand each other a lot. Or so, my theory goes. Maybe she's out there, and maybe she isn't. I'll never waste my time with a girl if I didn't see a future with her.
fair enough, but the best way to deal with that is to be a bit more confident, try to get rid of those insecurities and just go for it.
Yeah about 5 years. we broke up August 08 tho, and even saw other people. But then we got back together in march 09 We were having some problems and I even found out she was hanging out with her exboyfriend behind my back But we made amends and I'm totally confident that she commited to me now. All it took was one well placed backhand
+1 Proper. Relationships are so much better, I've always been a person typa guy, but still guilty on playin' the game. And too young to make a commitment is being the biggest commitment. Though I believe in love and what it can do for you.
my best advice for you is to just go with the flow bro. It will all come natural to you when it happens. Just don't rush it...walk her home and ask her if she wants to chill sometime. Step by step. It will all come together. Just be chill about it, you don't want her to see you stressing the fact that you like her. Play it cool. When a guy is all up in my grill, it turns me off...I develop most relationships by developing the friendship first. I mean, don't ease off completely, but don't go into it full force either. Calm, cool, collected. Don't premeditate everything...because it leaves you like wtfff when it doesn't work out as planned. You don't want to put yourself into that kind of situation yet. and if you french the bitch, don't drench the bitch haha. Everyone kisses differently, so you never know what to expect.
i dunno if i shuld just kick it wih my boo or ge on a seriouse leval, im having fun jus smoking blunts an fucking but i could see us ogeher as well but ill miss hooking up with random chicks at raves
eel2 no offense but it sounds like your having a fail. wait for her to show equal interest first. PS im young too but prefer to stay on some reliable,trusting,love-type shit,used to be a manslut but got over it//