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Relationship Problems

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by Mr Tasty, Oct 9, 2007.

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  1. DeDo1

    DeDo1 Senior Member

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    tell her str8 up how it is but dont sound needy by the sound of it shes still in to u but dot want to be in a relationship right now talk to her about it
  2. Duct Tape & Death Threats

    Duct Tape & Death Threats Senior Member

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    Yo taste, I know what you mean, you just care about her that much.
    But obviously being a lot older it's different for you, but I get the same way.
    If my girl goes out for a few nights without me I worry, and she doesn't text me till 2am and by then I've stopped waiting for a reply. Her sisters does E pretty often and said she's going with her and shit, and I hate that cause I've seen too many of my close friends go down a bad path or even end up dead from 'trying' shit. And then there's just the safety, you don't know where she is or who with, and I know how that can get to you, it's bad. But you can't help but worry.
    So I know where you're coming from brother, it takes a while but slowly get yourself together and do something to take your mind off it, go out and do something productive, even if on your own.
    Hope it all ends well man.
  3. Proper

    Proper Elite Member

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    I let it out, already.
    Last edited: Apr 19, 2008
  4. Kayone707

    Kayone707 Moderator

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    this has been said plenty of times before, but...

    there's more fish in the sea. ive been through a couple good relationships, and the only thing that helps with the break up is having that mentality. there's more women out there, it might take a while to find another one. but in the mean time, keep focused on your job, money, painting, friends. find time to actually get out and talk to other women, what ever gets the job done

    feel me?
  5. DeDo1

    DeDo1 Senior Member

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    wow. dam that makes me think. i dont want that shit to happen to me i would never do that to the one i love. i moved and it kills me to know the man i love and father of my child is so far away. i just want to be with him thru good and bad and the rest of my life. i cant wait till after collage so i can get what i need and get a great paying job so i can get a house and be with him and start a new family. love sucks and is blind, but when im there with him it feels like theres nothing else but me and him. i hate when good things go bad. even thoe im still with him i feel empty. him and i will be together for 2 years on the 24, but i wont be able to see him. b4 i moved i was with him everyday, every min ,of every sec he never left my side no matter what. i was homeless and he was there putting food in my stomach. making sure i was safe. to think i cant see him as much kills me. everyday i just want to hold him, sleep with him ,even be in the same county as him. i wanna cry so bad, but i know its better not to, cuz it wont make anything better only make me feel worse.
  6. JETPACK!!

    JETPACK!! Banned

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    woaahhh proper man, iunno if this will help but, roll a head, put on some tunes and jam out. in my opinion she can't be your soulmate if she fucked you over that like. if your very self concious, maybe go to the gym a couple days a week just to work out an get some stress off ya back. i dont know what works for you man, but i know that there's something out there that'll make you happy other than her. perhaps you dwell on her a lot because you dont get out of your house too often? (im not sure if you do or not, thats just the impression i get with your post) next nice sunny day you have man, go to a park, sit ona bench an just watch the girls. i do that a lot, it's nice.
  7. Proper

    Proper Elite Member

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    Yeah, I don't get out anymore. I don't see the point when I know who I want in my life.
    And yeah Jetpack, I work out everyday, I run about 4-6 miles a day and eat one meal a day. I haven't aten anything so far and it's 5:30pm. My goals are crushed but most importantly so is my confidence and drive.

    Thanks though.
  8. LuStErOcKs

    LuStErOcKs Moderator

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    its easy, have a relationship, till you get sick of it, dump her/him, Repeat. For full happiness.
  9. Fube

    Fube Elite Member

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    damn, sounds like a lot of u fall for bitches too easy. i fell for this girl and she stomped my heart out, cut it out of my chest, ate it, shit it out, ran it through a cheese grader, put it in a brown paper bag, then "e-mailed it back to me. it sucks when all u want is her back but when she betrays u once its over. u HAVE to just let it go. when she comes around again, u HAVE to not talk to her. when she wants u back u HAVE to push her away. nothing wrong with being alone. thing about chicks is there will ALWAYS be more. always. when it first happens, no one or nothing will convince u to just go the other way. fuckin hearts are stupid. turn your emotions off and rewind to what life was like without her in your life. everyone deserves a 2nd chance, but once thats gone good bye.

    when i get with someone and it turns serious, if she fucks up once, ok one more try, 2nd time, knock that bitch out the door. its not going to work out. shes useing u.

    once shes comfy with u its a hassle to begin with someone else, she will leave u, then want to come back, the leave again, then want to come back. its a never ending cycle.
    Last edited: Apr 18, 2008
  10. im telling alllll of you, friends with benefits is where its at.....just make sure you down get TOOO into her, then you get tied down
  11. G-Fat

    G-Fat Elite Member

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    clowney cakes is a MACK DADDY!!!
  12. La Coka Nostra

    La Coka Nostra Elite Member

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    shits beat.
    me and my ex of two years broke up for good about a year ago.
    but i still talk to her all the time, and fuck her on the regular.
    thing is she still gets jealous and yells at me when i try to get at another girl.
    she has no intentions of getting back together with me again, and she still tries to control me.
    i humor her by lying and what not, but i don't want her to find out the truth and never talk to me again.
    feelings are lame.
  13. steyr

    steyr Senior Member

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    take this story to mel gibson dude, he could make a great movie out of it.
  14. Proper

    Proper Elite Member

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    I'm glad my pain is of humor to you.
  15. -GEKS-

    -GEKS- Elite Member

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    okay bombingscience help me out

    me and this girl are pretty close
    like we're basically going out, its just not official...
    but shes going to both junior and senior prom, both with a different dude
    i havent known her for more than like a month and a half so i guess she agreed to go with them before we started hanging out
    she says we're going to go out after both the proms cuz she'd feel weird going with other dudes while she was dating me
    so what should i do, i mean its high school prom shes obviously gonna be on their dick the whole time, even if they dont have sex after. should i be worried about something like that idk

    lol i'm so gay
  16. La Coka Nostra

    La Coka Nostra Elite Member

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    why don't you take a bitch to the prom too?
    you'll see her there and maybe you can convince her to leave her dude.
  17. -GEKS-

    -GEKS- Elite Member

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    that would be a good idea, but proms in like 2 weeks or so and its too late to sign up or w/e
  18. Allthegoodnamesaretaken

    Allthegoodnamesaretaken Senior Member

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    My girlfriend is moving to toronto in 2 weeks. I don't want to dump her because I really do love her and if I dumped her, That wouldn't say I love her at all...
    I was thinking of getting a couple extra girls to do shit with but I don't want to be attached... although thats really hard for me. advice? maybe I should just talk to them to the point where they do shit with me, And then rarely talk to them again, and keep it sexually? iunno
  19. RetroLikeWhoa13

    RetroLikeWhoa13 Elite Member

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    i have the same problem kind of.
    but trust me most people dont stay at prom for more than fifteen minutes or so, and more than half of that time is just saying hi to people you half way know.
  20. Fube

    Fube Elite Member

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    pfft, do exactly what shes doing to u. shoot for the hottest chick u can get man, let her know she fucked up with u without saying a word.