Way to totally misintrepret half the shit I said and make audastic assumptions. 1. Slut: Someone who puts more emphasis on sexual relations than emotional bonds. When a girl regrets going out with most the guys shes ever gone out with, and has had her brains fucked by everyone of them...I consider them a slut. Especially when they date a wide variety of guys, and like to point out that certain guys were 'horrible' and of course those guys are no longer part of their life. Shit, I don't get how a girl can be all "I love you" and shit to your face, even if they won't say it to their boyfriends. Some girls date more for sex than anything, I think thats a slut. If their really into promiscuous sex, their also a slut. But if you date 5 guys a year and it never works out, and your usually not friends after wards, and those guys usually end up calling you a slut...Well. I know what a slut it. 2. Like I said, when you put more emphasis on sex than anything else...when all you can talk about is how good someone looks, and not whats in there head instead. Everyone wants sex, everyone wants a lot of sex. But only some people are willing to have 1 night stands, sleep with strangers, sleep with people they don't really like. etc. 3. How do I seem I only want sex? I want a fucking cute girl who I can draw with and shit, and make her feel special by making shit for her. Someone who i can collaberate with and not feel like "wow its a total waste of time with this person because all we do is makeout and can't hold interesting conversations" 4. Women aren't fucking machines (I never said they were), but you know, I really hate when girls try to make it seem like guys are such pigs. I've met so many girls who were so sex obsessed they could give a fuck less whats in the guys head, why you think nice guys finish last? Girls LOVE guys who are the stereotypical 'man pig' because they instinctively love drama, they love gossiping with their girlfriends. What I really hate is when girls have no respect for themselves and their bodies then wonder "why don't guys respect me?" well maybe because your always so flirty and making innuendos because that's all you care about. 5. Actually, I tend to doubt that. I would think 'whores' would tend to hang out at more places such as parties and clubs where picking up guys is easier. I want to meet girls at like, libraries and shit, or parks. Find a girl in a place where I know she is going to be into some of the same stuff as me. As opposed to some random place everyone in town goes when they want to get some sex. 6. You obviously took personal offense to this because you are insecure about your slut-ocity level. I've read your posts and you are very interested in sex, we get it. I'm not saying only guys are allowed to talk about sex, at all. Why you think guys get called pigs and shit? Then what, we can't call you girls sluts for acting the same way? 'n I know EXACTLY what I'm looking for in a girl. I dated a few girls when I was younger and only really wanted to get action from them, so I learned quick that sex does not make you more mature or anything like that. I didn't really get anything out of those relationships, action-wise or fun-wise. So I know that I want a girl who has the same ideals as me, and same interests, like I said I want a girl who is an artist so I can have fun collaborating with her. And finally, shut the fuck up. Who the fuck are you, you fucking whore. You don't know a damn thing about me, shut your cum filled mouth you filthy fucking slut. Guys only like you on here because you are open about talking about sex. They don't fucking respect you, they can say they do, but most probably have never and will never meet you in real life so who cares. Seriously, why do people consistently feel the need to call me out? Do you listen to yourself when you fucking talk? Do you read something after you type it? I do.
dude what, I stand up for myself. Someones gotta. but uhh, for the record...I could care less what she comes back and says so I'm most likely not gonna respond haha, that pisses people off the most I think. Damn I need to leave this forum since I'm such a nuisance for whatever reason, at least I learned some valuable shit here, I think its better to just read than post here anyhow since most people can't answer your questions anyway, that or its already been answered 20 times.
is easy to get offended, but it's better to not let the negative stuff phase you and just take in everything and learn from it. learn from reactions based on your words and you'll easily recognize what and how you really say things. feedback is another form of reflection, so absorb it. WE BOUT TO THROW THEM BOWSSSSSSSS
Before I reply, I'd like to point out that every one of my posts doesn't warrant or expect a reply. It's the internet. Get used to it. On that note; I apologize for the misunderstanding. I don't know why a girl can say that either to be honest because I was never like that, but I think it has something to do with not knowing what love is because the media portrays love to be a object that you can buy, trade and sell. I've dated more than 5 guys in two years and it never worked out with any of them and it ended on foul terms (not all in a row), they also called me a slut. But did it ever occur to you that I picked some bad dudes? I put emphasis on sex because it's one of the best perks in a relationship. That doesn't mean I disregard anythything else about my partner. And what's wrong with talking about how good someone looks? positive reinforcement is important in a relationship, while intellectual positive reinforcement is good too. I beleive that we're on the same level that people who sleep with peopel they don't really like aren't secure in themselves are looking for the wrong kind of love, etc. one night stands is something else entirely that I could debate. You never once mentioned what you were looking for in a girl, aside from their frame of mind on sex. Some girls are like that, they're also called 'Divas', they're Drama-Mamas who love conflict. I know for a fact that not all chicks who are sex obsessed don't care about the male intellect. I'm in a relationship with a nice guy, and he's my first place man. So we can just shut down that theory. We do like a little sauce now and then but never a mean boy. no one likes to be put down. Teased maybe but its all in good fun. And yes, some chicks disrespect their own bodies and minds and wonder why they aren't being respected by others. I've met a few, let's just say I hope they learn the lesson soon so they don't flush their life down the proverbial toilet. That doesn't make everyone who goes to a club or party a slut, geez. parties and clubs is everyone's ideal place for a hook up. Usually it ends in a one night stand and booty calls. But that's because both want it that way. Unless specified otherwise. You're right, I did take offense to some of the things you mentioned. Although I misunderstood what you were talking about. I, however, am not at all insecure about my "slut-ocity level." I'm interested in sex, I enjoy giving advice, insight and generally helping out with any information that I have; having learned it through my own hands-on experience, reading about it or seeing it. I think a guy deserves to get called a pig if warranted. I'm not above insulting someone if I'm being discriminated. Especially when I did nothing to deserve that treatment. I'm very conscious about my body language. Men can be sluts too, I really hope you agree with me. That's heartwarming and promising. One less pig. don't ruin your well written argument with a slur of profanity. It makes you look stupid. I'm JackJill, the not-whore of a female Bombing Science forumer. You're talking about Salo. We know absolutely nothing about each other, and for the moment my mouth is cum-free. I'm very clean and am regularly checked annually because I love my body and I care about my health. *some* guys like me on here because I've been on this forum for a long time, because I've known those certain guys before the sex thread was opened, because it's not easy to get a female opinion without looking like a fucking creeper. Whether any of them respect me or not, I am still willing to help out. I've met a few people on here from my area in person and we're still friends. I could care less about those who disrespect me, because like you said, we'll probably never meet. I call it as I see it. And all my posts are proof read before I post.
HAHAH its like Dr phil in this bitch, props to jackjill for dishin all those replys out damn. Oh and SBOMBS i have a scar on my junk from that shit. its actually from a girls nail though not a mouth haha oh ok i had misunderstood. yeah i wasnt into all that shit to be honest. But whateva gets yo rocks off i guess. She was a hoe anyway and we only did that once and my knife wasnt that sharp at the time. But if i ever pulled it on her just about any where i was gauranteed brain hah. I like freaky girls but not that freaky
jackjill we straight but just don't jump to conclusions like that again 'cause I do get nasty when people misinterpret me or condescend me like I don't know what I'm talking about, plus that was personal. It really does suck when you know the girl you like is a slut, I never liked thinking that about her, but when she likes to surround herself by guys, and isn't too shy about sharing her sexual endeavors...I don't need to go into detail, sex definitely de-matures people though when they don't use it right. I don't want a girls previous sex-record to interfere with me hanging out with her, and she better make me work for that shit if she wants to have sex with me.
pull out your 'knife' and be like.."BITCH, it's either yo life..or a bj! you got three muphukkin seconds to choose. starting now." and yeah, jackjill is mad logical. i wonder if she's a philosophy major or if she's taking law.
how can anybody not jump to conclusions on the internet. It's all perception as soon as you post your text. Anyway, enough about sluts. There's enough around as it is. When you first had sex, did you plan it? did you care? was it a drinken fuck? Romantic? wild? Special? experimental? EDIT: Frantastic, I'm taking Graphic Design. I love philosphy though. Philo-Sophia. Interested in law, not pursuing either. All my thoughts are on paper, but I could never try to prove my theories to strangers for the rest of my life. It's frustrating being shut down for an opinion.
what are you even talking about... yeah its kinda embarrassing for a guy to have to admit hes never done it but I'm anti-social as fuck, and I'm quite glad I didn't waste any time with any of the girls here. Aside from people being mad fucked up in general here, there wasn't a whole lot of girls at my HS I wanted to get with, I instantly noticed a big change in cuties when I moved. I have way too high standards too, but shit if I'm gonna be with a girl its gonna be 'cause I think shes special as me. Ideally though, I'd like my first time to be with 2 girls who are both virgins and really cool that I would know for about a month in advance. I'm not even kidding. That or just find a super sweet hunny who hopefully it is her first time too.
sometimes chicks think anti social is cute. you just gotta be more open minded man. dont judge any girl by face value. you cant really judge any girl by any value. chicks are crazy. youll think you know how they are, or how a certain type of girl will act, and shit will flip 180 degrees on you. and i used to kind of have high standards in the looks department. until i learned that the biggest sexual organ in the human body is the brain... just keep your head up, BE YOURSELF in social situations. drink. and be happy. and no. you will not lose your virginity to two chicks at the same time.
noooo, thats my dream! Its gotta happen. And yeah, thats kinda what I meant by high-standards. Good looks, but brains too, which is pretty hard to come by. I want a flyyy looking hunny thats super cool, I figure they gotta exist somewhere, just not here. I'm always myself, but sometimes people like me too much and I don't really like them so I always try to remain aloof, like I'm too cool to hang out with you, not playing hard to get, but I'm stubborn. If I don't think someone really wants to hang with me I definitely will not push it, if someone asks me to chill, then I will ask them once, and they have to return the favor until its natural. I just need to learn how to find these girls and approach them without bein' creepy, actually I don't want to approach them I want them to approach me so I know I'm not bothering any one. I figure if I do enough cool stuff then girls are bound to say something, like skating without my shirt or something, haha. I wanna break dance on street corners too, people love that shit and it'll make girls think I can dance good...but I can't.
yes, Nem you're right. But there's nothing wrong with standards. And Nem right. I've been talking about a threesome with my man for a year now and while we like entertaining the thought, we've never gone further than rating girls as we drive by. Sometimes the fantasy is more arousing than the reality. A threesome is a little difficult to orchestrate in the first place.
Stop trying to ruin my dreams guys, the number was initially higher...say, 5, but then 4. But I don't know 6 doesn't seem like a bad number, I'd just have to cum a lot. I think I have the endurance. They'd have to be virgins though. The scenario plays out as me doing something really impressive and convincing the girls I'm going to be famous since I'm so talented and spitting some poems at 'em (not cheesy ones) so they're like "wow we would feel really special if you had sex with all of us at once" Why not?! I figure it would give me some good experience so I'd be good for the one that really matters, maybe I'd even get to date one of 'em!
Are you serious? Virgins for the most part are pretty shy when it comes to sex, so they may want it. But I don't think they know about all the sexual positions and things. That's something you have to learn. And getting good is either natural, or you practise. Either way, you're doing something you really enjoy. Not everyone is awesome at sex, but what I like about it is that it's all about giving them what they want, and vice versa, and then getting exactly what you want which is their satisfaction. And then you're satisfied it's all an amazing circle.
Why not, I think it would be a cool thing. I mean, maybe I can't say I had sex in highschool but I could always say "well at least I got to lose it to multiple girls at once, it was really fun and a great learning experience for all of us" Plus I'd be able to experiment with what girls like in general and what certain girls might not like, and how to find out what they like. As a guy I've heard lots of "do this" or "don't do this" when it comes to sex advice, but its kinda useless if you don't get to practice and learn it first hand.
about threesomes. i have to admit with ms. jackjill, and say that alot of the thrill is in playing around with the idea. my man, without having had sex before, chances are that you cant please a woman, why the hell would you want to try for two...at once?